Monday, January 4, 2010

Leave It In the Past

So 2010 has brought me some interesting things...

I've already learned some very valuable lessons in 2010. We've got to learn how to leave the past in the past. As human beings we can do a bad job of moving on with life, and forgetting those times when things didn't go our way, people hurt us, or we just plainly made bad decisions. Our inability to move on with our own trials and bullshit in life can effect the ones we Love way more than we realize at times. Recently, I hurt someone close to me because of my inability to let go of the past. Its particularly bad since I am the one always stressing how people need to move on and not dwell on things that will remain unchanged for the rest of time. Think about that next time you start to think about insignificant things. Its a waste of energy to give precedence to thoughts, words, and actions that should remain buried in the calendar. No one wants to hurt the people we Love, so simply put, don't do it. We all make choices and have the ability to reason about what is necessary and what is insignificant. You will have a hard time growing as an individual if you don't learn these things, and that will only impede your ability to grow in the close personal relationships - romantic and platonic - that we all deep down know that we desire and need.

That is all, more later....